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A day in the life: homeschool edition

April 3, 2024

How did we get here?Let's say ten-ish years ago, you told me I would be homeschooling five human children. Well, I would have spit my Mike's Hard Lemonade straight in your face (it's summertime and we're eating tacos on the porch, by the way. I politely hand you a towel to wipe your face because I'm nice like that.). Rewind to ten-ish (okay maybe 12)...(TWELVE?!?) years ago. I had one human child, was working as an elementary school counselor, and was, quite frankly, miserable. Do you ever feel ... VIEW POST

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Jan 18

•• time to lose yourself with me ••

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Jan 16

•• My 10 year old gifted me this cup. What a little gem, eh? Tell me your favorite gift from this holiday season 👇••

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Jan 15

A glimpse into our week at Children’s Hospital with Molly. We are home with oxygen as she continues to recover from Flu A and Pneumonia. I spent little time sleeping and a lot of time cuddling, watching monitors, and thinking.

I thought about how grateful I am for my kids and their health (though they’ve been hit hard since November), for Derek and his calming presence, and for family that goes above and beyond to make us feel loved every day we were sick, sad, and tired (my parents deserve a vacation after taking care of the rest of our ill kids, animals, and a new puppy — Jeff & Tina were heroes with pizza — my sis kept a smile on my face — thank you).

I watched and listened to the doctors, nurses, and support staff. There is a certain determination in the way they hold themselves along with a weariness in their eyes that speaks to the gravity of their responsibility. Life-altering and life-saving decisions made day by day, hour by hour, minute by minute.

I heard the whir and throttle of the life-flight helicopter, felt the rumble of its engine through the walls as it took off and landed right above our heads on level 9. I felt anxiety for the children transported by air and a nauseating gut-punch knowing that there are children who will never leave — their families left hollow with the gaping, wretched void that is grief.

I thought about my selfishness at pushing aside my flu/Covid vaccinations this year — always meaning to get it done this week or the next…not realizing that weeks turned into months. Prioritizing convenience over health — decisions that come with consequences. While I can never know if it would have made a difference — I do know that if you have the chance to protect the vulnerable along with yourself, you should do it.

My thoughts circled around our ease of getting the care we needed and how difficult that is for so many — how healthcare should be accessible and affordable to all and that it’s not — how that’s not just a damn shame but a disgrace to the betterment of humanity.

Now, I sit here in a daze — tired. Tired of feeling the heaviness of the world and sitting comfortably without doing much to change it. I have work to do.

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Jan 8

•• 2025 vibes ••

Eat. Drink. Breathe. Kick ass. Repeat. .....and....goooooooooo!

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Jan 6

•• Would you put an espresso machine in your bathroom? ••

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Jan 6

•• "Let me see, what are my other shortcomings. I get in the dumps at times, and don't open my mouth for days on end. You must not think I am sulky when I do that. Just let me alone, and I'll soon be right." -- Sherlock ••

Same. Saaaaame.

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Jan 4

•• So. How's your year going so far? ••

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Jan 2

•• The four year old is snoring next to me, snuggled into my side. I'm busy dreaming up all the weird, moody, and beautiful things I want to share this year. It's going to be a ride. Hope you're ready. 🖤••

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Dec 31

•• Tell me your intentions for the new year. I'll share mine this week. ••

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Dec 29

•• All around me are familiar faces
Worn-out places, worn-out faces ••

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Dec 28

•• "to the ends of the Earth, would you follow me?" ••
@lordhuron at Red Rocks in May. I'll be there. Thanks @mrcharmingmess

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Dec 25

•• If they gave me a choice, if they left it to me, I know just what my present would be.... ••

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Dec 24

•• Precious moments ••

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Dec 23

•• Photo bomb courtesy of Max Dennison ••

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Dec 23

•• Slowly coming out of the fog of bronchitis. Living and breathing slowly. Thanks for checking in on me and the fam. Derek and Jude had pnemonia, Molly enjoys pulling all-nighters, and I am hoping for a health-filled holiday. ••

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Dec 18

•• Still sick. Enjoy. ••

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Dec 15

•• Down with the sickness, chills, fever, aches -- wanting a pillow that is both hot and cold. ...As well has a human sized, gelatinous orb filled with warm gel that would encase my body. Basically, a womb.

This is not an advertisement for these things. I simply want them to exist and if they do...alert me, please.

This *could* be an advertisement for @harneytea Harney & Sons tea but they don't know me and I don't want to make it awkward. But heeeeeey love your teaaaaa!

That is all. I think. Hot/cold pillow. Gelatinous womb ball. Tea. Oh, yeah. I have to cross my legs and hold my crotch when I cough. Five kids. Yes, I exercise the pelvic floor but there's only so much a dame can do, ya know?

Bye. ••

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Dec 15

•• Every gal needs @cyndilauper in their life ••

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Dec 12

•• The reality of filming any content with my kiddos in the background. Always having conversations, asking me questions, giggling. This was too sweet to edit out, you know? 🖤 Sound up for the full experience.

And yes, the girls' room is vintage rocker chick themed. Weird? Nahhh. No more strange than hanging Disney princesses on the wall. These are real, badass women artists. May we carry on their creative prowress and energy 🙌✨️

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Dec 10

•• Morning, moody souls. How's it going? ••

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